People every day go through tough situations in life, and its really too easy to treat ourselves harshly. Maybe today's the day to press through to to fulfill your dreams. It starts with you. small steps at a time.
How can you become a positive person?
The secret lies in making small changes little by little, so in time you can achieve a more positive attitude. Most people tend to direct their thinking toward the negative rather than the positive sides of their lives. We fear what may happen and dwell on the uncertainty of life as if events were to turn out bad toward us.
The solution is re-shifting your mind to focus on the positive.
Here are some tips on how to become a positive person:
• Put yourself on your side! Make a commitment with yourself to become a more positive person. Don’t do it because others want you to or as a reaction to somebody else's opinions;do it for you and because of you. You will be the one to reap the benefits in the first place.
• Make a change in your attitude and your discourse. “I hope it doesn’t rain” can be replaced by “It would be nice to have a sunny day”; a long commuting to work that you always thought as exhausting can be seen as a great opportunity to listen to music, read, or chat with a stranger. It all depends on the perspective.
• Get a couple of books on positive thinking and engage in reading at least ten pages each day. This will make a difference on the way you see things overtime.
• Surround yourself with positive and joyful people. When you meet someone that makes you feel better because they look on the bright side of life, decide to speak with them more often. Observe the way they see life and the words they choose to use. It will help you make your life more positive!
• Create your own set of affirmation cards with positive thinking affirmations, carry them with you and read them anytime, anywhere. Read them in the first hour of the day and before you go to sleep for a number of days, and you will be amazed by the positive impact this habit has on you.
A thought at a time
We are dealing with a thought and one thought alone at any given time, and a thought can always be changed. Even the most difficult or painful circumstance appears differently when you change the way you think about it. You don’t need to change the circumstances, only your way to think about them.
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I believe the thing that has helped me the most in remaining positive through out life is to have a God that I can trust. He has provide his word, in which for me is a guide in which to live life. I have a friend in God, someone that loves me cares for me with every step I make. A God you wants the best for me. He is bigger than you and me, and he knows all. How could I not remain positive when I have this.
I am no expert - but hope this helps someone. Harry
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